Tuesday, January 8, 2008

I Am Sooooooo Not Dateable

This blog is going to be all over the damn place, but that's what I love about blogging... you can talk about whatever, but in the end, it all makes sense. This blog is supposed to be about relationships, but if I get off topic for a minute, just keep reading, and I'll bring it back.

First, before I do that though, I just wanted to take the time to say that I am loving being back on the blog scene! You remember back in school when you would take summer vacation and when you came back, you would see all your old friends and see what's changed (joey, steven, norris, cocoa rican, etc.) and you meet all these amazing new people (rocafella 07, mr. jones) and you would just be happy to see what the new year would bring. That's how I feel!

So anyways, back to this relationship business... I feel like I'm too picky and shallow to actually be dateable... lol, I know it sounds crazy, but of course I'm going to clarify! I have come in contact with all your basic types in the past... THE THUG who is usually the cream of the crop when it comes to the fine department, but either lacks common sense or communication skills.
THE BI GUY who doesn't know if he wants you or sister.
THE PLAYA who thinks it's ok to cheat on you because he's just that great
THE PUSSY who in his efforts to please you, loses his spine in the process.

And the list goes on... I just feel like I'm so complex, that I need an equally complex, multi-faceted guy. I need somebody who will balance me out. I need a guy that's masculine, but at the same time in touch with his feminine side. I need a guy who's cool calm, and collected, but at the same time outgoing. I need a who's physically attractive, but at the same time kinda rugged. I need a guy that that's touchy feely, but at the same time someone that will give me my space...

I feel like I need so much, that my ideal man is unrealistic and unattainable... IDK... one day I'll find him, and when I do, what a day of rejoicing that will be!

25 comments:

Joey Bahamas said...

Lies...u are dateable...there has to be a balance between settling for less and finding your dreams...i just haven't figured it out yet...when i do though...i'll let you know...

Rodney said...

You are extremely datable and not at all unreasonable in what you seek. If I was ten years younger, I'd still be too old for you, but would still holla.

Great post!

Unknown said...

Yup you are undateable...pa, it's all in what you put out there. You see, you can't attract "the one" when you're putting out the vibe for "the wrong one." The moment you set out to attract what you're looking for, he'll be there. ...and keep some compromise going. For me, age, experience and hard knocks have taught me that...
1. I want a man who is open to communicate with me and is ready to love
2. Will respect me, our relationship and our differences
3. Is attractive enough to keep me physically, emotionally and mentally stimulated, but isn't going to spend our entire relationship saying things like, "Enough about me; let's talk about you; how do you feel about me?"
Flash those pearlys...be you...and be ready to give a decent brotha a chance w/o making him pay for all the previous zeros.

Marz said...

I need your life not to be so wrapped up in having a boyfriend right now. Take some time out for you right now. (Though this advice isn't the kind most like to hear. -shrug-)


-Marz

That Dude Right There said...

That damn Cocoa always beats me to put down what I want to say!!

So with that said, ditto to what Cocoa said.

RocaFella07 said...

Awwww I'm soo blushing right now (if that possible)...Thanx for the mention! I'm madd pissed that I'm JUST discovering your blog...But, I LOVE it!!

Anyway, I thought I was the only one who felt too pickey LOL. But, I've come to realize that its not being "pickey" its just having "STANDARDS"...which a lot of people lack.

Keep your head up. And thanks for stopping by my page.

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